What more could I want now beyond
everything I've ever had, all over again,
and the strength to withstand the heavens?
It’s 7:30. I’m up early for blood work, writing in the waiting area now. There are so many people here with me — maybe a hundred something? — and we’re all listening intently as the nurses clad in burgundy scrubs go up to the telephones and call names on the intercom. Clicks and pops echo around the cavernous room every time a phone returns to its hook.
What more could I want now beyond
everything I've ever had, all over again,
and the strength to withstand the heavens?
One by one the nurses lead us to a large room that reminds me of a stable, with privacy curtains instead of doors and medical chairs with wide wooden armrests instead of horses. The scale and speed of the operation makes me feel like I’m a cattle being led off to slaughter.
I am one of the youngest patients here. I can see it with my own eyes, but in case I couldn’t, I can tell when the assistant at the specimen return desk asks me if I’m bringing those back for myself or another patient. Yes, they’re mine, I say. In another time I might have wished it weren’t for me, but I think I’m far past that point now; besides, wouldn’t I rather it be me than any of my friends or family?
I see only one other patient in the waiting room clearly younger than me, a young girl. She can’t be more than thirteen, zooming around on a motorized wheelchair with service dog under her arm. It’s sometimes hard for me to feel gratitude on my solitary pilgrimages to the land of the sick, but there is still so much to be grateful for.
I get lucky today. Hailey picks a good vein that dries up right as the last of ten vacuum tubes is filled. The dark blood flows like molasses — it always does — but I’m thrilled to escape with only one stick, and a fairly painless one at that. She chats with me as the tubes fill slowly, asks me about work and New York. The small talk makes me feel better in the way small talk sometimes does: it keeps me talking, makes it harder for me to listen to the thoughts in my head. She takes the reins of my mind and points them toward brighter shores, even if for only a few minutes. I think about that effect for the whole walk home, whether the distraction is really a good thing, whether I should use it more or less when I’m not feeling good.
I asked J if she was free last night to talk and not only did she call, but she canceled on plans to do so. She told me they didn’t want to go to anyway and that I was simply a scapecoat [sic], but I’m still very touched. Sometimes I think I maybe don’t fully appreciate all my friends do for me (“you have a good support system,” J said on the call) and I want to make more of an effort to recognize when they show up and support me.